sand and wind?

heard from chun hou today morning
about sand and wind.
(from minyew's blog)
what would you like to be?
sand? or wind?
what is the difference between sand and wind?
sand is solid and wind is gas?
=.= dumbest answer i've ever given.

in desert,
there are nothing but sand and wind.
wind blows in a direction and sand follows.
sand does not have choice, it is weak,
powerless.

according to min yew,
in love matters,
wind is the one who manipulate everything in relationship,
sand is the one who just follow the direction of wind,
cant make its own decision.
so am i sand or wind?
i wish to be wind,
but can i choose?

sometimes we don have choice.
i thought i was the wind,
suddenly, i realised that i am the sand
who does not able to control anything in the relationship.
maybe i should say that
im weak in relationship.
thats so sad huh?

i told myself thousands of times,
that i don believe in love anymore.
its something which is easy to say it, but hard to do it.
when it comes, we are weak and unable to resist it.
i reminded myself to be stronger,
but can i when it comes around?
duh... its always so tough for me.

哎，有时真为自己感到悲哀。
为什么还痴痴地迷惑呢？
明明就很清楚是不应该的，
还这么的傻，
一次又一次地，
把自己摔得见不得人。
-dumbness-
i have to idea what can i do more?